Dating can take all sorts of different forms; from the more serious and committed relationships to the more casual ones. These days more and more people are opting for the easy route; favouring no-strings sex over life-long commitment. This can be seen when looking online at the explosion of the adult dating scene. There are way more people using those naughty dating sites now than there ever was before. So is it really that easy to find partners for a one-night-stand? Let’s take a look at how it all works.
All about fun
Life should be about enjoying yourself, maybe not all the time but what is the point in living if you don’t make the most of it. Let’s say you’ve got a stressful job and you’re looking at releasing some tension. If you are married then coming back home means more work and responsibilities. On the other side if you are single then ideally casual no strings attached sex will be the right thing for you. Just a bit of fun without having to worry about the next day; it’s just the perfect way to destress. Life doesn’t always have to be about being serious and you want to make sure you have enough fun so that you don’t regret it in the future when you actually get hitched for life.
The fact that you are not committed with that person is not only practical but it can also lead to very naughty and dirty sex; different from the sort of sex most married couples tend to have. There is no complicated feelings and no resentment like there often is when couples make love. Instead what you get is pure fun and great sex. There are certain things we just won’t do with our serious partners, but those things can be done with a one night stand. Trying new things, not always being the one who is in control, letting yourself go are just the tip of the iceberg. The truth is that no-strings means no worries, no apprehensions and no bad afterthoughts. Once you’re done then you can reminisce and enjoy the rest of your day.
Diversity is good
The other thing about not being committed is that you are free to go where you want, no need to stick to just the one partner. This means being able to have sex with different partners, different hair colours, different types of body… with no strings-sex, variety is indeed the spice of life. It is something you definitely want to do if not just to get more bedroom experience, then later down the line when you find a serious partner you will have a few tricks to make sure they enjoy being with you in bed. And of course by that point you won’t be regretting that you’ve never had enough fun in the past. So think of no-strings-sex as a good way to get experience, we all need some to make sure we are confident to go out with who we fancy.